Stephen's Blogs – Stephen Hon's Blogs (韓啟年)

Scenerio 1
While driving back after work today I saw a couple walking by the road side. The lady followed the guy from behind while her boyfriend pushing the broken down bike. (Looked like college students to me) The lady seem like holding camera phone direct to her boyfriend (maybe shooting a short video clip or snapping pictures of her boyfriend pushing the bike) for her blog? or to keep it as a souvenir of this unforgettable experience yet she still giggling even facing this situation. After I passed by the couple I began to think…. what a lucky guy riding bike also have girlfriend while I have car also no one want me as her boyfriend! Maybe I should changed to motorbike? Maybe not…. I don’t even have have a motorbike license!

Scenerio 2
After supper I saw even more couples holding hands walked pair by pair back to their home. Lucky guys again? No bike, no car still have women by their side. Then maybe I should drive no car and  began to walk but I remembered walking the same path many times… many years (I almost 43 by  this December) but still walking alone. No women walked side by side with me also? Maybe I should crawl? Ha! Ha! Just like Spiderman… Even Spiderman have Mary Jane.

Scenerio 3
This happened in front of my eyes just inside a restaurant at Seremban. That moment I was having dinner with my mum. A pretty lady, sexy also walked  by! I definitely will look mah. She is on her way to washroom. When she came back… she sat right beside a guy almost 1 1/2 time of my size!  I am already 73kgs (over weight a bit…. if based on my height of 5′ 7″) Imagine that a super obese guy like him also have great girlfriend. You call him lucky? You should! I have average body and with this kind of height almost near perfect (just a bit of “spare tyre” on the tummy only mah…) also don’t have perfect girlfriend! May be I should go super obese too? But bad news…. I am the type of people most will get jealous…. I can eat a lot but won’t grow fat (but can add a bit more “spare tyre” loh Ha! Ha!

You may asked….. how he look? Ok, quite good looking…. just super obese. Me also quite good looking mah. You may say he might be rich! Maybe… as his clothing doesn’t seem like  from pasar malam one. If this the case then I cannot compare loh… me not rich mah. If he is rich then this guy lucky loh because he was born with a golden spoon stuck up in his mouth.

But what if he is not rich then, and this woman still like him? Then I can only give you one answer, “Have you  ever heard that love is blind? Based on her look and her body, if ask this woman to annouce that she  need a boyfriend I believe there will be men que from start to the end of road, which have better body frame or maybe some may be rich too (if she into materialistic relationship)  But why she still want this guy? I don’t mean to discriminate fat people but what I try to say is… If you have the choice to choose why him? Cheekily I thought…. if she really married to him… while make love who should on top leh and heard that obese guy have short … short what? (I heard from friends during my college time loh! Is it true?) If it is, she may satisfied meh?

Then suddenly my mum interupted my cheeky mind… then told me, “See… a guy like him also have girlfriend. And you already an “old man” also cannot find one. Keep on chosylah….  then you die one day without a wife and childrens then you know!” I said, “Ma… not me chosyloh. Women choose me ma. I want to choose also don’t have”

So any women who read this want to be this “old man” wife and willing to have children with him so his mother wishes to see him get married and have grandchildren come through (just before the end journey of her life? )

Scenerio 4
I saw these many times, pretty, gorgeous, sexy lady (some even models) fall in love with a guy that almost matched this description “Beauty & The Beast” It really make me wonder, why? Till now I still cannot get the answer. Look around, still many good looking guys mah ? (I’m also not bad mah!) If the answer you give me is “money” loh.  Well… if because of money…. many good looking or average looking guys also have money mah, why chose someone when people seen them together, they have this question, “This world don’t have men liow meh? She is so pretty and sexy yet he is so ugly! Then people added this, if not… disneyland where got story “Beauty & The Beast” woh?

Once again I does not mean to discriminate but I salute those men. They can win the heart of real beauty that made every good looking & average men jealous. I also jealous… I want this kind of beauty also don’t have…. maybe never have…. because my face not look like one mah… I still an average looking guy… bitter and sour smile.

Scenerio 5
Why some woman still want to love a guy even though knowing him that he have married, already have a wife? This woman also knew for sure that once his legal wife find out the relationship, surely a hell will break loose, why risk this and get into unnecessary trouble? This world no more single guys meh? Take a look, many single guys around still cannot find a girlfriend or a wife. Some already 40++ I am one of them.

Scenario 6

Of all those scenarios above now I wondering if “love really blind” or women “blinded” their eyes when in love?

Aiiii … love thing really complicated. When you are alone, you wonder why no one loved you. When you in loved, you complained your partner take you for granted, not care for you, not love you enough, not understand you or worse emerging of a 3 triangle love!