Men should learn to cook! Many men think that cooking is women’s job and it is embrassing should any of their friends know that they can cook.
Have you ever been to a restaurant or a five stars hotel? Have you ever tested the food there? Isn’t the food delicious? And do you know who prepared the food? The chefs. Do you know that many chefs are men and they are well-paid?
I think men should learn to cook too. At least they should learn how to prepare a decent meal. Me, of course knew how to cook a decent meal. Believe me, cooking can be fun. Why don’t you men give it a try?
What can I cook?
- Rice of course!
- Fry egg
- Oyster sauce oily vegetable
- Fried rice
- Fried fish
- Fried Maggie (Maggie goreng) Mamak & Siamese style
- Medical Herb Chicken
- ABC soup
- Pop Corn
- Kaya Margarine
I can prepare Nutrition Breakfast / Nutrition Meal / Nutrition Mix that contain more than 40++ vitamins & minerals in less than 10 minutes 
Do you agree that men and women are the same? I do not agree. Men are usually taller than women. They are more hairy and their skin is more rough too, compared with that of women.
It is also common that men go bald when they are old. Women are stronger emotionally. They are more patient. Not many people are patient. Some are restless, others will become irritable and some even lose their temper easily.
Other than being patient, women can stand more pain. That what I have read in Magazine. That could be why women are able to give birth. Even though men and women are not the same, I think they should be treated equally and fairly.
Some people still think that women should not do some of the things that are done by men. They are humans too and should be allowed to do things which men can do.
I’m sure many of you like songs. Songs brighten up our days when we are sad or unhappy. Some songs bring sweet and sad memories to many people. Without songs, I am sure this world will be a dull and boring place to live in.
I enjoy all kinds of songs, ranging from sentimental, pop, reggae, hot number to rock. Those songs appeared on my play list are my favorite songs. I don’t have any specific favorite singers as not all songs from the same singer I like. Some songs from certain albums are my favorite but some songs are not. Songs indeed add spice and thrills to life.
When a lady tell you that “You don’t have to do this anymore!” she actually sending out a loud & clear message. It might be
- I already have someone special that will give me flowers (or other presents) on my birthday so you no longer need to do this.
- I am not interested to have further relationship with you.
I “gathered those broken pieces” with heart pain each time I breath. I “gathered those broken pieces” walked slowly to the auto pay machine. I “gathered those broken pieces” to pay for the parking fee. I “gathered those broken pieces” then walked slowly to the car.
(Wa lau leh! So many “gathered those broken pieces” ?)
Ok! Ok! Let put it in this way…. I “gathered those broken pieces”
- with heart pain each time I breath.
- walked slowly to the auto pay machine.
- to pay for the parking fee.
- then walked slowly to the car.
- driving slowly out the car park.
- without realise why I finally reached Alpha Angle JUSCO
- parking my car in the car park.
- reaching MAXIS shop and finally realised that I need to pay for the broadband.
- going down the foods bazaar.
- ordering for foods – drink and paid for it.
- eating and drinking slowly.
- to reach home finally.
- to try to online.
- I logged in my blogs
- typing words by words to be place here
Without realise, tear wetting my eyes, flowing down my cheeks. Heart still pain. I want to mend those broken pieces by burying it here. It not easy but I think it is ok. Feeling a little better now when typing alphabet s by alphabets.
She have sent out earlier signals before but I just ignored it, but now it is clear when it came out straight from her mouth. Her initials signals are
- removing all my comments in her blogs (including some of her other friends)- 99% of the comments came from myself. She then set her blogs to “Under Construction“
- removing me from her Friendster’s friends and set her profile to private.
- unresponsive of my SMS & emails -
- I let her knew my birthday (No wishes from her)
- New Year Greeting Message (No response)
- Chinese New Year Greeting (No response)
- Valentine Message (No response)
- removing me & other (guys) from her facebook. What left are her mutual friends. (All ladies) She then set her profile to private.
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She is the one I admired, the one I like and can be said the one that swept me off my feet. She is pretty, sexy and my dream woman. When I first meet her, I told myself, she is the one I want as girlfriend and if have any chance I want to marry her for the rest of your life. It a beautiful dream…. but it shattered, break like glasses fell to ground when I finally found out her dear honey is not me… She have made up her choice not to choose you but the other man! ( She posted it on her friendster, “I’m falling in love again.. thanks honey  ” ) Sob.. sob.. your tears came out from your eyes without you realise. And you wonder why it is so hard to get a woman to love you. What can you do?
What else can you do? If you are sporting enough… wish her all the best and hope that her choice will be the right one and the man she have chosen will not hurt her feeling, can build the future together or might take care of her for the rest of life. All the best dear…. good luck! You move on with your single life like as usual. Before her existance, you have lived on as a single guy, many years alone, right? So does it make any different right now?
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Maybe it is just a crush, smitten by her beauty or more on one way traffic love… you have the feeling for her but she don’t have in her… That why she chose someone else. This is what have written on her blogs by the title “If you really want to know me first of all, you should never try to get too personal, cos I meant it when I said, that you gotta long way to go…” Maybe this the consequence ignoring her messages? Sob… Soob
So when is the time a woman will said to you “I’m falling in love with you… Thanks honey ” where this honey is YOU?
As I walked toward her working place I have been thinking, What will her reaction when she see me? Or she is not around, out for lunch? I don’t know… just see first. When I reached the main entrance, she is there with one of her colleague. Alright she have cut her hair short and rather look cute but she no longer showed this kind of reaction. She looked at me as seem like asking “What I doing here?” She only smile back when I first smile, the smile on her face not so natural. As I walked closer with the flowers on my hands I blurted out “Happy Belated Birthday!” but the voice just not coming out. It like getting stuck depth down in my throat. I repeated the words again and handed her the flowers. She took it and looked at it.
I said that I should bring this on Sunday (19th April) but just because she is off, I decided to bring over today. When looking at the flowers she said, “Ok! That fine. It nice! Thank you! I need to go down stair to meet my boss now.” She seem like want to cut short the conversation. (Maybe she really need to see her boss) I tried to delay her. I asked, “How life?” (I last met her was on October 2008)
She said she is fine. She will stop working here by end of this month and will start a new job next month. She then asked me if I parked my car around this area. I said yes and then she said that will be very expensive. I said, “About average, it might be around RM 5.” She looked at the flowers again and she said,”You don’t have to do this anymore!” The telephone ringing and she said her boss is calling her now. That words… are more than enough to bring my mood down to the lowest. That messages sound loud and clear in my ears!
Now that she have said it, I am disappointed, discouraged and my ‘glass’ heart broken into pieces. I forced myself to give her a smile and said “See You” (Will this will be the last words I say to her? I don’t know. But it seem like…. at the moment, as I don’t have any other good reason to meet her again. Though she have informed me that she will start a new job next month, she did not even tell me where I can find her. Maybe she don’t even want to tell) She took the flowers with her, rushing to listen to the phone. Our conversation not even last 2 minutes!
I woke up at 10:30AM today and before getting ready, I have been online a while till 11:30AM. Later I drove all the way from Wangsa Maju to Damansara Utama (about 32 KM) to pick up the flowers I have been ordered! When I reached there, I called up the number that was given to me yesterday night by Ellie Han’s business associate. The guy opened the door for me and hand me the flowers. I made the payment and drove to Bukit Bintang. (That was about 21KM from Damansara Utama. The total of 53KM! [32KM + 21KM] Wa lau eh… What am I doing? Siaw ah? Gila kah? Crazy meh? An idiot doing stupid thing? Travel 53KM just to pick up the flowers and do the delivery? By this distances I can even reach Seremban liow! Only a stupid fool did this kind of thing right? I also guessed so… I am a fool that moment)
On the way many things have came to my mind.
- What if Caroline not there today? What should I do with the flowers? Leave it there or take it back?
- If she is there, what if she went out for lunch ? How long will I need to wait for her then? 1 hours?
- What her reaction will be? I last met her was October 2008. Since then, many things have changed, many things have became complicated. This is also a reason why I need to think over before I ordered this flowers. It is not because of the RM 72 that I need to think about.
- What she will say then?
- Does she really welcome to see me?
- Or this will be my 1st birthday present or even the last for her? I don’t know……
No matter what if want to “die” then “die” lah. I only know what will happen next after she received the flowers. Without I realised, finally I reached the car park of her working place. After parked the car, I walked to her office. What will happen next?
Finally I made up my mind to go ahead with the decision. That is to get the flowers for Caroline. Around 7:07PM I called Ellie Han to confirm my order and asked her to prepare it so that I can take it from the shop tomorrow but she cannot be reached. The connection activate her mobile phone voice box and I left her my messages.
My message to her is “Ellie, I am Stephen. I have been at your florist shop yesterday. Now I want you to get it ready the package “Love You” The one with 12 red roses at the price of RM 60. I need you to add me a doll in that package. I will come over to collect it tomorrow. Any further questions, please call me back!“
After hanged up I went through her name card and it stated there “Tuesday OFF” Damn how I going to take that flowers if the shop close on Tuesday?
7:46PM I received a call from a lady and she said she is from the florist shop. She called me about the order I have placed. Well, it is not Ellie Han but it is her business partner. She told me that they may not have the red roses at the moment as it need to order in advance. What they have now is pink roses and it may not enough to 12 roses. She asked me if I mind if she mixed with other flowers. I said it doesn’t matter, as long it look nice. I aslo told her that I need a doll on it and then i asked if with the doll how much. She told me that it is about RM 72. I gave her the green light and before I hang up, I asked about the “Tuesday OFF” If they will closed tomorrow, how I going to take the flowers?
She gave me a guy phone number and asked me to call him when I come over the shop tomorrow. She said he will be around tomorrow. She asked me what time I will drop by. I said after 12:00PM and hanged up.
As the time shown 12:01AM in the morning, it is 19th April now and this day is Caroline birthday! I logged in my email account to send her 2 links to wish her “Happy Birthday!” [Link1] [Link2]
Click On The Cake For The Birthday Songs
I like to take this opportunity to wish you Happy Birthday! May your year ahead fulfill your dreams & wishes.
I found this leaflet on my car windsreen. I will not tell the product name as they did not pay me for the advertising so no point to mention the products name here. The leaflet said
Makanan Untuk Lelaki adalah produk buatan 100% ramuan tumbuhan yang tulen untuk membolehkan anda mengalami kesan yang 100% semulajadi tanpa sebarang kesan sampingan dan ketagihan.
- Bekesan dalam MASA YANG SINGKAT
- Meningkatkan KEYAKINAN KELAKIAN anda
- Meningkatkan DAYA KAWALAN lelaki
- TIADA KESAN SAMPINGAN dan KETAGIHAN
- BERTENAGA, BERSEMAGAT dan selesa
- JAMINAN WANG DIKEMBALIKAN
- SELAMAT DIMAKAN, BERKESAN HEBAT!
Dikelaskan sebagai makanan oleh Kementerian Kesihatan Malaysia. * Wakil pengedar dikehendaki. PENGHANTARAN PERCUMA.
Nama Pengedar + No. Talipon Bimbit
Can be trusted or not? Sure can work ah? If after I taken, it work, where do I put IN? I don’t have girl friends, lovers or a wife to test it out, how effective is it So what did I did to the ads? I kept the dealer phone number but put the ads in recycle bag to be sell to recycler.
At 5:30PM I received a SMS from a guy who requested me to give him Tina’s phone number. When I see this I don’t know to laugh or what? His SMS
Stephen, do u have Tina Ting Ting number? Tq – Ben
Hmm another Ben? There is one Ben who go after her sister, Caroline Fong and now another guy by name Ben too want to go after Tina? Or is this the same guy? I don’t know. Maybe yes, maybe no but no matter who, do you expect me to give her phone number just because you SMS me? No definitely not, I don’t know who you are and you are a stranger to me. If you are a stranger to me you are stranger to Tina. Tina is a lady and I am a gentlemen. As a gentlemen I should protect her privacy. Even if I have her number I will not definitely give it out as I don’t know you are a good guy or a bad guy. I also don’t know what will you do when you have her number.
Come on guys! Don’t SMS me for the ladies phone number. I don’t mind that you SMS me if you need my products or maybe want to know more about the business opportunity. I have been thinking for a while, why no ladies SMS? Ha! Ha! I definitely welcome any ladies to call or SMS me, for lunch? movies? buying products? or want to know more of the business opportunity?
Well guys…. if I did not give you Tina number does not mean you can’t have it. You still have the chance to do so. You need to put in some effort as there is no such thing as free lunch. Guys if you really want to have Tina’s number, here are the things you need to
- Click on “Tina Fong” tag in my blogs. Read about the business she is in.
- Find out what business I am involved.
- Find out when and where I used to bump into Tina one a while.
- Join my business network by fixing up an appointment with me.
- Follow me to all those meetings.
- If by any chance we ever meet with Tina, I will introduce her to you.
- Then it is up to you to ask her for the phone number. If she give you then you will have it. If not, consider yourself don’t have any luck
It that fair? I gueseed it is fair enough for you and her. Don’t tell me that I did not warn you. She have very high expectation on men. She admired those have qualified Platinum and above. If not, it is quite difficult for you to win over her heart. Even I have business in Malaysia & Philippines, yet she still not yet attracted to me! Ha! Ha!
You may said…. “If like that, I don’t want lo….” Well, that is your own problem. You are the one who want me to introduce her to you but you can’t make even a small decision? How can?
As I online around 1:00PM today to check for the keyword used by people to find my blogs, one of the search keywords attracted my attention and I followed the link and manage to find these photos of Caroline Fong (Miss Congeniality 2007, Miss Malaysia Universe Finalist 2007) The search keywords are “miss malaysia universe 2007 photo“
Caroline Fong Walked Out In Evening Dress
I have sent these photos as an attachment to Caroline and I hope that she will like it. If she did not get these photos from her email, she can get it from here
After work while on the way back to Wangsa Maju, I passed by Jalan 4/27A and have noticed some happenings around the V2 Cyber Cafe. (Red square box at the left map) From the road side I can see a lady in black singing at a special stage. First I have not think of stopping by to see the event but when I reached home I have regretted why that I did not drop by. 
It is 6:45PM that moment and still very early before I headed back to hometown Seremban.
As I have not yet make up my mind, I told Ellie that I will call her if I need anything. She hand me a booklet and I left the place. Anyway, I like to thank Ellie for that. A very simple call yet Ellie have gave her best service & advised.
Caroline Fong 方彦晶
Nicole Tan
